Happy New Years! Good bye to 2013 and hello to 2014.
With this New Years falling on the New Moon, it is all about new beginnings, making a fresh start. Wipe the slate clean and say good bye to all the negativity. Start this new year off the way YOU want it to be and keep the ball rolling to make this the year you want it to be. This year, it is all about a new and fresh start! Change your perspective and point of view and look at life through a pair of fresh eyes. Fill this year with kindness, love and compassion. Live with excitement instead of fear! Let this year be all the adventure you have hoped for. Want it and make it happen. Be motivated and wild, let your spirit dance and sing. Don’t let complacency and dullness rule your year. Life the most full, exciting and free life possible. Wish for it and make it happen. Life the life you wish to live and be the person you want to be. There is nothing stopping you or holding you back. This is the year to make it happen.
The last few years it has been really important to me to come up with my own traditions and customs, and for Eric and I to develop our own traditions together. Incorporating some of the things we knew in childhood and growing up, as well as things from our heritage or things that came along with our new beliefs and ideals we developed in adulthood.
One of the most interesting traditions I have learned about trough my research that we have put into practice in our own New Years Eve traditions is called First Footing.
First Footing is and old Celtic tradition. In Scottish and Irish households, to ensure luck and good fortune for the year ahead, the first person to enter the house after the stroke of Midnight on December 31st, on New Years Day has to be a tall, dark, and handsome male. It is believed to be a symbol of good luck in the coming year.A red-headed female would be the last person you would want to enter your door as red hair was considered a sign of the unlucky and would bring hardship and grief. It is also said to be unlucky for the first footer to come empty handed. Some of the traditional gifts include whisky or some form of alcohol, coins, coal or a loaf of bread.
The way Eric and I have incorporated this into our own traditions is that no matter where we are or what we are doing, when we arrive home after midnight on December 31st, he is always the first to enter the door and cross the threshold – as he is the tall, dark and handsome one of the two of us! Me, the red head… enters last. He carries coins in his pocket as the “traditional gift” to the new year.
So to have a happy and lucky new year, pay attention to who comes through your door after midnight, and watch out for the redheads… 😉
An interesting Pagan New Years Tradition is to place a silver coin on the porch before midnight. Then on New Years Day retrieve the coin and throughout the entire year, it is said that money is sure to arrive when it is desired.
This is a small new little tradition I may incorporate this year. By placing some coins outside on the balcony under the darkness of the new moon, I will set the intention for a prosperous new year filled with wealth and health.
Each year, since a child, eating cabbage has always been a part of my New Years meal. As a child mom used to make pork and cabbage, but now as a vegetarian I skip the pork. It is said to bring health and good fortune for the coming year.
And of course, don’t forget the New Years Eve festivities. Fun, partying, sharing of champagne, the midnight toast, the first kiss of the new year with that someone special… all are on my list of traditions yearly.
But whatever you do, have fun and be safe. If you plan to be out sharing too much champagne, designate a driver or call a cab. Please think of yourself and others. No one wants their New Year to start out with an arrest, an accident, an injury or worst of all, a death.
Remember, this is the year for a new start. All of the negativity, bad habits, problems and difficulties of the years past, leave them at the door. Another tradition is to “sweep” out all the negativity and bad and all the old you have no use for in the new year. Open up your door and physically sweep it out, setting the intention and make a ritual of it. Making room for the new, for the positive and for the good. Making room for your new dreams and desires. A clean slate. This year is yours!!